Dear Daddy Mookie, My dad kind of has a drinking problem. He doesn't really get drunk but he drunks way too much I mean
that's all he ever drinks is beer. He says he doesn't like the taste of anything else. Well, what should I do to help is drinking problem because
I am really concerned and I want him to cut back a lot! I mean every once in a while is fine but he worries me with the amount that he drinks!
Signed,
Worried and Concerned
Well, worried and concerned it seems like you love your dad
a lot for you to be trying to help him. First off since you said he doesn't really get drunk, that means he has a very high
tolerance. I think you need to sit down with him sometime and have a serious talk about it with him. If you have any other brothers and sisters and they feel the same way, have them interact with him also. He needs to know that you love him and you just want the best for him. If that continues to work take some extreme measures and try to
dump all the beer out that you can find. This way he will have to get tired of paying for something he
doesn't even get. I hope this helps and be easy with him it's probably a way of life for him now.
Dear Daddy Mookie, My girlfriend wants to try something new and exciting, but
I don't know exactly what she wants and I don't want to freak her out. We go at it a lot of different ways, sometimes missionary, sometimes side by side, sometimes sitting, sometimes standing, and in different places... around the house or what-have-you. I don't know what exactly she wants, What should
I do?
Signed,
Pondering and Wishing
Pondering and wishing, it seems as if you have an interesting problem on your hands. On one hand it looks like you have tried everything. Yet, on the other she is looking for more. What I think you should do is set out a bunch of candles before she gets there and have them all lit. No
artificial light, only the candles and the moon, unplug any clocks if needed. After you have jet the scene, you need to set the mood, I suggest a song by aerosmith named, I
don't wana miss a thing, playing softly in the background. Then everything is set up for this time. But now you have to set up
what's going to happen during this time. I suggest adding something if she's looking for more. Some good ideas would be peaches and cream,
Hershey's chocolate, or what have you. You're getting my drift I don't have to explain. Just make sure you take your time. You
don't have to go for the gusto right then when it gets going take your time and play around. If done right you can play around all night. Just be relaxed it sounds like you might be tense about this already, just calm down. What your doing is something people do when
they're in love, so your sharing love not just a good time. Make her feel loved and
appreciated!
